In the Church, we all see things through different tribal visions of the same thing. It is all about love, just a different image. Some are peaceful. Others are more intense. By understanding a larger image of love, something we may not yet realize, we can become wiser than our initial response to our limited expression of love.
Before tossing away another person’s expression of the love of God, take a moment and wait. The responses that come may be the very thing you need to do at that moment when a tribal view is thought to be enough but isn’t.
Jesus, looking at him, felt love for him and said to him. You are missing one thing.